Good girls give head too

Although I don't remember when blowjobs were popular, I know that they are now less common and much less talked about. Although every woman secretly wishes she could blow her partner's head (pun intended), chances are that she won't openly admit to it or share it with her friends. Blowjobs have been viewed as degrading with the rise in the empowerment of women and all the feminist movements. However, they can save your marriage if they are from both of you.

Blowjobs don't belong to the curious or young at heart.

If you're in a long-term relationship or are married with children, you'll notice that sex is not high up on your priority list. I often hear women talk about how they feel disgusted and what it is like to give their head.

"I only did that when he insisted. But I don't like it so I do it less often now."

"I do it only two to three times per year - birthday, new year, and anniversary. It's enough."

"Oh, it was not something I liked. It was something I didn't like for years ."

"Blowjob? That's so demeaning. That ." would be something I would never do to myself.

While I do not advocate for everyone liking it, such passionate statements amaze me every single time. If you do it for someone you love, why is it so demeaning? Someone who cares about you and makes you feel good. It can be degrading to do this in the bathroom of a club for a guy you just met, but it's okay to give your head to someone you feel for.

Connect with your partner in a new way

Oral sex is just as important as any other form of sex. It can be used to connect with your partner, regardless of whether he's on his knees or you. Giving your head can help to create a special bond, just as good communication, travel together, cooking together, and taking dance classes, among other things, can build a strong connection between you. It's difficult to separate the physical and emotional when you are close to someone . Many sacred books and teachings have stated that partners can connect their auras through sex. It's an intimate and beautiful act that you can see there is nothing to be ashamed of. This is not a way for your partner to control you. In fact, it's the exact opposite. Here's how.

In reality, the one giving head controls.

You are wrong to think that your partner is controlling you and disrespecting you by asking for a hairstyle. You are in fact the one in charge. He is open to whatever you do and will not be disrespectful of you. He wants to have a positive experience and relax. The opposite is true. You are completely relaxed and he is in control of your pleasure. You don't want to be in control of him or make him feel inferior.

Is it not dirty?

If you are ripping into each other's clothes or just wanting to get it done as fast as possible, your partner should always be willing to clean up after you. The other kind of dirty is considered inappropriate and 'nice girls don’t do that '..., but they do.

A good sexual relationship (all inclusive) is a key element in maintaining strong connections with her partner. Genuine reciprocity between partners is a foundation for a solid relationship. If you don't like blowjobs, or other acts, say so at the beginning. You might not say this on your first date, while you're enjoying coffee and popcorn at the cinema. But, if things get heated, it will be a sign that your relationship is going to change. Being honest is better than being sarcastic and blaming him every year for his birthday.

Where do you start?

We are glad you asked. Do you know how man's best friend gets up every morning before they do? Use that. Get down and give him a blowjob. I can assure you that this thing will beat any alarm sound in your morning. Let things heat up for later. You can call him at work to discuss your plans. Do it! Keep him interested, and you'll see results.

You're the one responsible for blowing his head, literally. If you and him are synchronic, you will notice how his moanings and enjoyment fuel your passion. It is possible to have spontaneous orgasms or be very close to them at this stage. This is due to the intense pleasure he is showing, which will cause arousal.

One last word of advice

The first rule is to take your time. Don't rush. It's unlikely that it will happen, especially if it's something you have never done before or only occasionally.

Begin by rubbing his inner thighs. Next, you will need to lick the area. Allow your cheek to touch his erection from the left, then slowly wrap your tongue around his neck and ask him what you think. Start to blow him a kiss and lick everywhere except there. Pay attention to his body while you do it. His body will tell you if he isn't a talker or doesn't lead the way. It will be clear to you when you do it right and when it doesn't.

You can speed up, then slow down. See how he reacts. When you are done speeding up, but keeping the same pace, he will go crazy.

Finally, make sure to play music and have wine before you go. This will create a pleasant atmosphere for both you and your guest. Don't be afraid to do it fully or not at all.